Thursday, September 24, 2009
problem 3
i am an muslim and my girl friend is hindu. my parents want a muslim girl.But she convert to muslim we can marry somehow.she agreed for that but she doesn't want to change her name.if she doesn't convert purely my parents won't let me marry her.i love her a lot and i respect my parents wishes and dreams.both are not agreeing. wat should i do?
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I can understand that situation is quite tough for you.It is really very commending that you respect your parent's feeling but you should also respect your girlfriend's feeling,by agreeing to change her religion she has shown that she truly loves you and if she does not want to change her name then you should not force her to do so and should respect her feelings.I think you should convince your parents to accept her because in this world it is very hard to find the true love.Rest depends on you.
hey guy... she really loves you, so don't worry you get something special compare to others. I am understanding feeling all of you, your, your girlfriend's & your parents feeling.One thing which i find that is igo... it is the main problem between this relationship. Friend, you should convince your parents that she is gud girl and i can live very happily with her in future. well i think all parents want children happyness, so they accept your feelings.
Also i think there may be you face some problems due to generation gap, but dont worry this is your test & you have to be pass in this test.
If you cant canvey your message to your parents properly then you should convience your girlfriend becoz this time is very important in your life... one wrong dicission can change your life completely.... and a bad change gives only pain, so please move forward safely....
Name is not important person is important.... social igo is not important personal feeling is important.... becoz it is the only way which can make this world beautiful....
keep moving guy with hope....
well i agree with what wish said. it is a problem of ------ ego. now u should try to convince your parents that the girl is willing to change her religion for me and we should respect her sacrifice and not to fight for a name.
SEE, the best thing you can do in this case is to ask her to adopt your sirname, that will somehow fulfill the needs of you two. Other thing you can do is to ask her to add an extra name along with the sirname as in, Pooja salma abc. You can refer by her muslim name in front of your parents.
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